Updated:  22/11/24

Please have a glance at the well thought through FAQ page I’ve put together to hopefully answer everything you need to know about the business side of things

How Do /You Best Describe Yourself?
I’m a person who doesn’t take themselves all too seriously. I like to laugh as laughter cures all the blues and it’s healthy. I’m told I’m sexy but I don’t see myself that way – it must be a naturally occurring phenomenon that I’m oblivious to. I also don’t consider myself beautiful but I do think I’m more pretty than beautiful. I’ve always wondered with age if I will one day become classically beautiful?

My mouth is my best and worst asset. Best because it brings great pleasure to people in so many ways. Worst because I don’t have an off switch and say what I am thinking.

What I do know is that I’m easy on the eye, great in bed and a pleasure to be in the company of.

Do You Enjoy What You Do?
I fucking love it! Sex is me and I am sex. It is my life. I have a passion for making people happy and satisfied in body, mind and spirit.

So What Makes You Different From The Rest?
Experience. I’ve worked for a long time in the adult industry – 28 years in fact. People can’t learn what I know as it’s all lived experience. My skills are not transferable to others, I cannot teach them or share them with others – they are uniquely mine and they are spectacular.

I’ve experienced the whole spectrum of sex work. I’ve been a high class escort to the rich and famous in Los Angeles and I’ve been a survival sex worker in Brisbane barely getting by at one point.

I have worked domestically and internationally servicing the very top of their field businessmen and celebrities, to the average everyday person and I can tell you the divide is not wide when the rich and the working class are naked!

Work wise, I am currently sitting comfortably somewhere in the middle where I have a lot of choices in how I conduct my work and who I see. If I choose to see you, know that I saw that “something” in your inquiry that made me WANT to spend time with you.

I work in a position of privilege these days, which is a luxury not afforded to all sex workers.

What Is The Best Way To Contact You?
I like SMS because it’s straight forward and an easy back and forth exchange that can be referred back to if there are any confusion or misunderstandings in our communication.

Talking on the phone is not always discreet for me especially if I’m running errands like at the bank or supermarket or working at my other job. I will answer the phone if I can. Or alternatively, you can text me and ask to arrange a time to speak on the phone.

After Hours SMSes:
I rarely respond to smses that come to my phone after business hours – not even the next day. Why? Because at the time you contacted me, you may have been alone and able to communicate there and then, however the following day, you may be with your spouse or at work and it may not be convenient for you to communicate. I use discretion in all communications.

I stop responding to messages around 10pm. 10pm to 10am is my personal time. If I happen to see your message outside of business hours – I may respond briefly but won’t engage in long winded chit chat during my personal time down time.

There are exceptions of course, such as when I am on tour, I start work earlier and finish later when on tour, so I am available on the phone longer.

Is Your Incall Location Discreet?
My incall location is my private home in an upmarket area on the south side of Brisbane in Kuraby. Discretion is assured by me and expected by you – especially in regard to my home address.

On tour, I always choose private homes and apartments over hotels wherever possible as I believe they are more discreet for you than hotels. If I can’t find suitable private accommodation, I’ll stay in a hotel that I’ve thoroughly researched for you for privacy.

Pets
I have a domestic short hair cat and a Pomeranian dog. Should you have pet allergies, I would advise that we meet somewhere other than my home.

What About My Personal Details, Will My Privacy Be Respected?
Absolute discretion is exercised with all your personal information. I’m old school where I still believe the foundation of the sex industry is based and dependent upon discretion, trust and honesty.

I don’t keep your phone number unless you ask me to. And even if you’ve said I can keep your number – I don’t contact you if I’m having a quiet day to ask you to come see me. Cold calling is not my style. I only contact you under the circumstances you have said I can, such as to notify you of tours.

The security of the information you have allowed me to keep is assured. I have an iPhone with a pass-code on the lock screen and the phone never leaves my house except on tour. I am prepared to wipe the phone remotely with find my iPhone should it ever be stolen or lost.

Is That Really You In The Photos?
Yes, it’s really me! I update my professional photos yearly, maybe twice a year and the selfies pretty much weekly. I believe in transparency in advertising. You should be able to see who I am when booking and have no doubts about my appearance.

Always check my selfies as they are more the real me and I don’t use filters.  I don’t much like professional photos but it’s become part and parcel of this industry in recent years and I needed to keep up or get left behind. They are pretty – the professional photos – but are not quite a true reflection of my beauty, style and personality.

I hear a lot of feedback from clients about how they were duped by a sex worker with fake photos. One of the best ways to verify a sex worker is real is to pay attention to where they advertise. Websites like Scarlet Blue, Real Babes, Escorts and Babes, Available Angels, Dakota Dice, Ivy Societe all have a photo verification process that we need to do and the website places a “verified photos” banner on our ads. This verifies that the person in the photos on the ad are indeed that person.

Do You Have An Age Limit?
No I don’t but respect and a mature outlook is required from people of all ages when it comes to sex.

Do You Get Sexual Health Checks?
Absolutely. Every 90 days roughly as stated in the recommended health guidelines for optimal sexual health care. Even though I’m not legally obligated to, I do so because I have a high level of health awareness.

Every sexually active person should have sexual health checks regularly. If you’re sexually active in your home or play life – every 3 months is recommended for you as a client too.

Do You Offer Natural Sex As I Don’t Like Using Condoms?
No.

I do however offer natural oral sex on both male and female clients. This will have to be a sufficient half way.

If you don’t like condoms for penis in vagina sex, there is always the option of using a female condom. I keep these in stock for just this circumstance.

I don’t argue with people over natural sex. I disengage quickly from the conversation.

Stealthing is now a criminal offence in Queensland under sex crimes. Stealthing is the removal of condom without consent or knowledge of the other party.

A Deposit? What? I’m not paying a deposit!
Since the beginning of 2020, I have been asking more and more people to kindly pay a deposit. This is due to the excessive amount of time wasters, no show clients and address collectors crawling out from under their rocks since covid lockdowns.

Let me break this down for those who may not understand what I mean:

A time waster is someone who contacts a sex worker repeatedly usually over long periods of time – days, weeks, months and sometimes years – asking to make a booking but usually ghosting when it comes time to choose the time or leaving it. Basically they carrot dangle a booking or I may have spent hours texting with them (collectively over time) with endless mindless banter only for no booking to happen and my business made no money for that emotional labor. Known time wasters are now given less time and consideration and are required to pay a deposit to secure the booking.

No show clients: these are people who make a booking and don’t show up for their booking time. They have no intention of showing up from the get go. This means I have wasted not only the time on the phone with them, but also the time it took getting ready for the booking and the fact I most likely could have booked someone else in their time – so again my business makes no money for my effort.

Address Collectors: these are predators who simply make bookings to find out a sex workers address. For what reason? Your guess is as good as mine! We’ve never truly worked out the “why” of this type of person. I have always feared it is to come and rob my house or cause harm to me or my property or for some other nefarious or violent reason. I have heard a rumour that it’s a sport for some men collectively to share sex workers addresses.

I give all of the above known types of people one shot at making a booking with me – contingent on a deposit being paid. If they reject this – they are never offered a booking again with me and all messages get a “thanks but no thanks” or “I’m fully booked” or I simply ignore them altogether and never respond again or block their number.

In regards to Tours – let me explain why I would like a deposit from you to secure your booking: Touring costs me approximately $500 a day to be away from home on tour plus my expenses incurred at home.

I have minimum amount of time to make maximum amount of income. I need all my available appointment times to be booked by people who will most definitely show up as I don’t raise my rates on Tour, my rates are the same as my Brisbane rates – which is a real bargain in some cities.

A deposit establishes trust and gives the person paying the deposit motivation to keep their booking time. Of course a booking time can be moved, along with the deposit but generally it’s to show me you won’t mess me around and I know what I am doing that day with my schedule.

Regular/returning clients are exempt from paying a deposit as you are well trusted by me until such time you fuck it up – then you will need to pay a deposit to book a future time.

Will you run off with my deposit?
The short answer is no.

I understand that there are sex workers out there who do indeed run off with your deposit as a scam and this sucks and I’m truly sorry of this has happened to you but it wasn’t me who did that and I shouldn’t be punished for  it.

With a little bit of research, much of the time it is men who’ve placed fake photo ads up as a scam to steal your money. It’s pretty easy to spot them as they tend to use AI photos these days. They get away with it because those ripped off won’t report them to the police due to embarrassment, so they keep getting away with it. At a minimum, please report their profiles to the advertising site, so they can remove them from the platform.

As a long time sex worker this is my advice to you: don’t pay a deposit higher than you can afford to lose.

My other piece of advice is to google the phone number of your chosen sex worker and check them out. See that they have an extensive online presence including long term social media and reviews and that they have an advertisement on a prominent ad site that also verifies the advertisers like Scarlet Blue, Real Babes, Escorts and Babes, Available Angels, Dakota Dice and Ivy Societe. If they don’t have a decent online presence – say they just have the one ad –  ask questions of them, ask to provide links to other ads or a domain name attached to their business or social media links. Scammers will soon lose interest in scamming you if they think you are on to them.

But I can’t pay a deposit as my wife will see it on our bank statement!!
Yeah you can still pay a deposit, there’s more than your bank account available to you. Think outside the square.

Cash deposit ATM’s are everywhere these days. Or novel thought – walk into a bank and make the deposit over the counter *gasp* I know that’s old school and requires you to exercise your legs but being able to do this will show me that you’re committed to the booking and that you go that extra mile for your pleasure.

Or how about an e-giftcard or Beem?

What is Beem?
Beem is owned by the big 4 banks as a way of instantly transferring  money securely between people. On both parties bank accounts it shows up as “Beem deposit or Beem refund”. Usernames and account names do not show up on either parties bank account. It is a safe and anonymous way to pay your deposit or service fee.

If you still don’t trust it after the information I’ve supplied below from banks themselves and Canstar, well then that’s just you being paranoid.

Here is are links so you can see for yourself what Beem is about:

CBA: https://www.commbank.com.au/digital-banking/beem-it.html

WESTPAC: https://www.westpac.com.au/personal-banking/mobile-wallets/beem_it/

NAB: https://www.nab.com.au/personal/online-banking/digital-payments/beemit

SUNCORP: https://www.suncorpbank.com.au/help-support/ways-to-bank/beem-it.html

CANSTAR: https://www.canstar.com.au/transaction-accounts/beem-it/

Eftpos & Credit Card
I now have a merchant account with a discreet business name that shows up and can accept all debit and credit cards. I do not off Afterpay on adult services as per their terms and conditions.

Is There Anything I Can Do To Prepare For Our Appointment?
Self check that you are healthy. That you’re not feeling like you’re coming down with something. If you have a cold or flu etc, cancel it reschedule your booking.

No coldsores!! This is a big one because I do not carry the coldsore virus and I do not wish to catch it and carry it for life.

Also check your tongue for white fuzz – it’s a sign of an oral yeast infection (or dehydration). You can get this cleared up by using Nilstat – an OTC oral medication

Being freshly showered is nice but showering is essential upon your arrival at my incall place for occupational health & safety reasons – especially for natural oral sex.

Freshly shaven face to stop stubble rash on my face from deep French kissing and to prevent rash on my pussy from oral sex would be greatly appreciated.

If your fingernails if they are jagged, please trim or file as scratches are not acceptable on/in my delicate areas from fingering me.

But I Showered & Used Mouthwash Before I Left Home! 
That’s nice of you and thank you but following your at home shower your balls would have sweated a little on the drive over and you possibly slipped out a sneaky little fart. These things make you smell not so fresh in your cock area – where my face and mouth goes.

 Please, just shower and freshen up at my place. It’s not included in your time.

I Want More Photos – Can You Send Me More Private Photos?
I don’t need to send you private photos to your phone due to the fact that I am fully face out and only advertise on the internet and all ads where my phone number is – there are always current photos.

You are always welcome to follow me on Twitter / X as I post selfies on there very regularly: https://x.com/ntynikki_ or @ntynikki_ don’t forget the underscore on the end.

I also have a paid adult content account on the Only Fans website with more than 6000 photos on it and hundreds of videos. It’s USD$6.99 a month and I post pics almost every day. It’s very similar to Twitter in it’s set up – easy to use and you can cancel at any time. You can find me here: https://onlyfans.com/ntynikki

Custom photos are labour. You’re not entitled to demand free labour from me as at this point in time – you are not a paying client.

You are welcome to pay for exclusive photos that I take specifically for you. I accept Beem only for these photos. Beem: @NC70 at a cost of $10 per photo for clothed. $20 for topless, $50 for nude, $100 for 5 x graphic shot of my pussy or asshole. $150 for 5 xxx photos with toy usage etc or you’re welcome to join my Only Fans for USD$6.99 to see all these types of photos and videos in the subscription cost.

Why Aren’t You Available 24/7?
Do you work 24/7? No? Neither do I. It’s unrealistic and not physically possible to do so.

But I Really Want To See You Early Mornings, Late Nights or Weekends Dammit!!! 
Well, you can if it is absolutely the only time you can book. You must book at least the day before and pay a 50% deposit via Beem or PayID to secure the time.

An out of hours fee of $200 applies on top of my advertised rates.

Yes, I know these are high fees and it’s not a case of “your pussy must be made of gold” it’s the fact that my time off is very precious to me and if you wish for me to sacrifice it – it must be worth my while to work beyond my boundaries. (This does not apply to pre-arranged outcalls – overnights or an other booking that starts within hours but run beyond)

What Payments Do You Accept? 
Cash, Beem or eftpos is my preferred form of payment on the day. I will accept PayID in some cases.

Do You Take Credit Card?
Yes. I have a merchant account under my discreet business name. Swipe, tap, Apple Pay, Google pay, credit cards including AMEX.

Why Won’t You Kiss Men With Bushy Mustaches or Beards?
When I was younger, I had a family member who had an unkempt bushy mustache and beard and he would always have snot and food particles in them. This is not something I’ve ever been able to get past the trauma and I see them as a bacteria carrying issue for me, so I choose not to kiss anyone who has one that is remotely bushy.

Close cut to the face or very neatly trimmed is fine with me but nothing long and bushy that hang over your lips. I will ask you to please wash your facial hair when you shower at my home prior to the service.

Medical Issues?
If you have any kind of medical device on your person or tubing coming out of your body or a colostomy bag or any kind of medical issue really – please talk to me about this before making an appointment. There are some things I am perfectly fine with. There are some things that I will react with a trauma response should you surprise me with it. It is a harsh response – it’s not you – it’s me and some past trauma with a family member that makes me react that way. The point is – please disclose, don’t surprise me.

Can I Pay You With Drugs and Can You Supply Drugs or Viagra To Me?
No.

I Paid For You – I Can Do Whatever I Want With You! Violence in the Workplace
Actually, no, you cannot do anything you want to me. Consent applies even when there is an exchange of money for time and company or sexual services. You can be charged with a sexual offense if you commit one towards a sex worker. If consent is given and then removed during a service, this must also be respected. Consent can be refused or removed at any time for any reason.

Please keep in mind that although this is a very fun and sexy journey we go on together that the bedroom is still my workplace. Violence will not be tolerated in any form and I reserve the right to defend myself how I see fit at the time followed by law enforcement action.

Unlawful Video Recording
I am very well educated in all the types of hidden video recording devices available on the market. Using any of these to record me or our intimate time together WILL result in your arrest and prosecution. Two party consent is required for video recordings.

There is no need to covertly record being that I offer video recording with consent in my services.